Fr.
David would have
mass for us everyday
down in the lounge,
on the first floor
there. And I remember
feeling real obligated
to look at the readings
ahead of time because
he would come in
from the office and
he’d start
vesting and then
he would say "do
you know what the
first reading’s
about, do you remember?
Or what’s the
second reading about?" Then
he would get up and
give this wonderful
homily. So I always
used to kid him about
coming for the act
of transubstantiation.
We had, he was a
wonderful leader
here and it just
touches my heart
to see Campus Ministry
has developed ever
since that particular
year.
Then
we were trying to
get a priest. Oh,
I think I interviewed
something like 24
people. We finally
got a priest from
the East; a priest,
a Franciscan, by
the name of Daniel
Mulkearn.
.
He’s
still a dear friend
of mine and he’s
with his community
out East now. But
he got all kinds
of programs going
here. He did not
want to be the Director
of Campus Ministry,
so he made me, not
made me, but he convinced
me I should be the
Director. He would,
you know, help develop
everything; which
he did.
Then
I ended up being
asked to go to Notre
Dame, to come to
Notre Dame, to help
because they were
going co-ed. And
I, they were looking
for some Sisters
to help with that
whole big moment.
And I went there
and I remember there
was no job description
for this for a woman.
And I remember saying
to the provost
there "What
if I only make it
til Christmas?" And
then he said "Well,
we could arrange
that. If you come
and if you only make
it til Christmas,
we’ll get somebody
else." But
I said "Well,
there’s no
job description." He
said "Well,
I know. You just
come share life and
at the end of the
year, we’ll
look at what happened
and then we’ll
write our job description." And
so that’s what
I did. I ended up;
this is my 32 nd
year at Notre Dame.
But
the thing that I
hold so dear is that
for about 27 of those
years, I’ve
been on the Board
of Trustees here
at the University.
So it’s been
wonderful to watch
the history of the
University. I must
say, when I came
on the Board, Sr.
Vivian was the Superior
General, I think
at that time, and
she was on the Board.
So she was leaving
and they asked me
to be one of the
Sister representatives.
But I remember her
saying to me, "You
know Jean, you might
be on the Board when
they close the University,
the College, down." And
I just reminded her
of that. Because
it looked like could
we make it. So many
small Liberal Arts
Colleges in the country
were just financially
so strapped. They
just couldn’t
find their way through
all the changes.
And we hadn’t
gone co-ed, I can’t
remember what year
we went co-ed, but
anyhow that was one
of the things that
looked like it might
save us. But then
the whole place just
came alive again.
So we were kidding
about this the other
night. I said "Vivian,
do you remember the
night you said to
me "You might
be on the Board when
they close down."" I
said, "Look
at the place!" So,
it’s been wonderful
to be on the Board.
Then
there were times
when the University
here got together
with Notre Dame sometimes.
Because when the
University celebrated
its 75 th year; they
asked Fr. Heberg,
who was the President
Emeritus then at
Notre Dame, if he
would come and be
the graduation speaker.
So, at that time
President Doppke
was here and President
Doppke was a Notre
Dame graduate. So
he thought maybe
Fr. Ted would do
it for a couple of
reasons. Because
he was a grad, but
because eleven of
our Sisters were
at Notre Dame and
helped in Ministry
there. So anyhow,
Fr. Ted said yes
and he sent me, called,
and then sent a little
note and said why
don’t you fly,
he was going to fly
over here. So I flew
here with him for
that graduation.
He just had a great
time here in this
very room. He was
in here, he met all
the Board of Trustees
people and he said
to me "I’m
doing this for the
Sisters." And
then after the graduation
and everything was
over, you know we
had some refreshments
and that. Then we
flew back and he
said he just thoroughly
enjoyed coming in
you know. Notre Dame
has their graduation,
this great big air
conditioned basketball
arena. But Fr. Ted
is so at home wherever
he goes. He loved
the tent. We had
the tent effect and
for him it was just
wonderfully Franciscan.
Anyhow
and so, we got
Fr. Ted here, you
know here at our
little College,
our University. Then
the nice thing was
there were 3 or 4
people on the Board
who were Notre Dame
graduates. And so
they got a big kick
out of having him.
Mike Hansen got a
plane from someplace
and went and got
us, you know. So,
anyhow, it seems
like the University
here has just been
a part of my life
all these years.
My sister went here,
my niece went here.
I just can’t
imagine my life without
this place.
When
I look back at
special people,
I think first I guess,
I think of Sr. Rose
Agnes because I met
her when I was a
freshman. She taught
me Theology. She
was studying Theology
at St. Mary’s
of Notre Dame. We
were on the cutting
edge already with
Sr. Rose Agnes in
terms of the Church,
movement in the Church,
women in the Church,
and women going into
Theology. I’m
sure she’s
the one that set
me ready to go into
Theology.
And
then the other
person was Sr.
Seraphim who really
taught me Journalism
and writing. I can’t
imagine my life without
Sr. Seraphim.
I think of her so
often. I had an opportunity
a couple years ago
to sit and write
some memoirs about
Notre Dame. The book
got published. I
know I never would
have done that, I
mean it was all so
much a part of my
training from the
University here.
So it’s a little
piece of history
for the University
and because the book
deals a lot with
the first women and
all the different
things that happened;
not just the women,
the men you know
and the women. The
stories, the stories.
But I think how did
I ever write that?
I’m sure it
was the reason; I
never would have
attempted that, people
kept pushing me to
do it. And then when
I went to do it,
it was like it just
kept coming and coming
and coming. Pretty
soon I had this book
and I thought, I
guess I really did
get educated in a
certain amount of
Journalism, you know
to do something like
that. So anyhow,
Sr. Seraphim was
real special.
Sr.
Chrysantha was
real special. She
was the Dean. I learned
a lot from Sr. Chrysantha.
A lot of our sisters,
Sr. Beatrice, oh
my gosh, I learned
everything I know
about Shakespeare
from Sr. Beatrice.
I mean we could sit
here and go on & on.
Sr.
Tharla, Jane Marie,
who is 93 years
old. I was talking
to her yesterday.
She knows all my
love life. I mean,
she met all the fellas
that I dated here,
different ones. One
I almost married
before I decided
to come into the
community. But she
always reminds me
of that. So once
I was campused, how
many days, 27 days
because I was late
coming home. You
got 3 days for the
first minute and
then a day for every
minute after that.
We got caught in
a snowstorm someplace
and the fella I was
with, we just couldn’t
get back here. So,
later she confessed
that she thought
I eloped. Anyhow,
because she knew
it was a serious
relationship. So
Sr. Tharla is just
one grand friend.
She’s just
a wonderful woman.
She knew my family
very well.
The
other thing is
I’ve stayed
close to a number
of the women that
I graduated with.
We had our 50th
a couple years ago.
So we all got together
at Marge Hansen’s
house. Someone is
trying to remind
me of something.
What award? Did I
get, oh I did, an
alumni, from the
College? Oh, I forgot,
I can’t remember
when I got that.
But it was for women
who went to the College
for their professional
accomplishments.
That’s right.
That’s got
to be 15 to 20 years
ago. I think the
person who got it
with me was Carolyn
Murphy, who became,
she just finished,
she was the Chairman
of the Board of Trustees
here for 10 years.
She just resigned.
That’s right,
I did get that. I
forgot about that.
Anyhow,
that’s
some of what I remember
at the College. The
College of St. Francis
was well known on
the south side of
Chicago. There were
a number of folks
that came here. It
was just a great
short ride on the
Rock Island. You
were far enough to
be away from home,
to be away from home.
But not too far that
your parents, even
when I came to College
for women to go away
to College was still
you know everybody
didn’t do that
in the 50’s;
this was the late
40’s. But I
distinctly remember
my dad putting me
on the train and
giving me $5 for
the week or for the
2 weeks. I was supposed
to buy a dance bid
out of that. You
know dance bids then
were like $2 or $3.
I think my first
year at the College,
my College bill for
the whole year; we
have a copy of it
and my brother just
reminded me of this;
was something like
$850. That was for
room and board. What’s
interesting when
we looked at it,
that the most expensive
part of my College
education was my
room and board not
the education. I
had all these PhD
nuns teaching me.
It was just an amazing
thing, the kind of
education we got.
I
know when I left
to go for graduate
work in Journalism
at Marquette, I guess
there were moments
when I thought I
wonder if I’m
ready for graduate
school at a big Jesuit
place like that.
But once I got there,
I just felt really
my education, I was
ready for that. Then
to go on at Marquette,
I mean Notre Dame.
It was after the
Council and our community
wanted some sisters
to go on in Theology
because there were
so many changes.
I tried desperately
to stay at Marquette.
I never wanted to
go to Notre Dame.
I thought it was
so Catholic that
maybe they would
never be able to
make all the changes
that the Council
was asking for. Isn’t
that wild? So, that
was not my first
choice. So I always
feel like I backed
into Notre Dame and
stayed 32 years.
I
always felt that
my education here
at the College prepared
me for everything
I did. At that time
it wasn’t co-ed.
We did a lot of things
with St. Procopius
which was a
men’s College.
Sometimes the University
of Notre Dame fellas
came here, Fornier
Institute which
was so heavily endowed
by H.H. Smith. He
brought in all those
Catholic young men
who went into Engineering.
A number of them
always came over.
They were always
in uniform. So the
College, it’s
been a wonderful
place. It continues
to do all these grand
and glorious things.
But with lots of
grace, lots of Thanksgiving,
and what else? Is
there anything else?
I
never hesitate
to tell anyone
to come to school
here or to try
to get a job here.
Now I find myself,
and folks here
when they get into
situations, sometimes
they call me or
I send things here
that I think they
might appreciate that.
You know, we’ve
had a problem with
at Notre Dame and found
some ways to deal with
things. I tend to send
that here. I was just
talking to Lina Sims
and she is doing so
much more in Cultural
Diversity and I work
with that all the time
at Notre Dame. So,
she’s going to
come with a group and
they’re going
to come to visit. She’s
done that a couple
times. They just pick
up and come and we
sit down. I show them
what we have and you
know get them to talk
to people, to be a
resource for them.
I’m sure that’s
Fr. Ted’s way.
I’m sure I learned
that from him. It was
always like come to
Notre Dame, talk to
people, maybe someone
could help you with
this. So it’s
been wonderful to be
able to do that. |